Oh well, I don't have to play their games by their rules.
And "the rules" seem to change daily in today's society.
Mine don't, so there you have it.
How many siblings did you have?
trimminmg with the giant rusty manual clippers.
Happy day for me when my dad got an electric mower & weed trimmer
But apparently I'm an old fuddy-duddy who doesn't understabnd life as it is now.
Don't want to get into modern socio-politics and treading lightly: If you were born a boy or girl you are always a boy or girl regardless
what you think (or feel like) today.
When your chromosomes change, come back and we'll talk about it.
Being 12 years old than I we had little in common. He married his
high school sweetheart in 1958 and I was an uncle at 10. They are
still married to each other, have two kids (two years apart, a boy and
a girl) and several grand and great grand kids).
I came along in 1950 and was what I call an "oops" baby. "Oops,
honey, remember that night we...." :)
Oh, I hated those things. Grass always clogging up the blades...
Like a bad haircut I thought, "well it'll grow back". :)
Join the club. I'm a charter member.
Mine don't either.
Don't want to get into modern socio-politics and treading lightly: If you were born a boy or girl you are always a boy or girl regardless what you think (or feel like) today.
When your chromosomes change, come back and we'll talk about it.
How many siblings did you have?
Altogether three.
I had a brother (b. 1922) and sister (b.1924) from my father's first marriage. "Big Joe" was killed in the Pacific in 1945. I was born five years and three days after his death in my parents second marriage).
My mother had Charles in her first marriage in 1938. He's the only one still alive.
Being 12 years old than I we had little in common. He married his high
school sweetheart in 1958 and I was an uncle at 10. They are still married to each other, have two kids (two years apart, a boy and a girl) and several grand and great grand kids).
I came along in 1950 and was what I call an "oops" baby. "Oops, honey, remember that night we...." :)
In the late '90s I worked as as temp in maintenance at a local bank and one of my jobs was mowing the grass, trimming the hedges, etc.
Now I was never that good a trimming and had a power trimmer.
I was cutting along, stepping back to check how I was doing, etc and when finished I was pretty well pleased with myself. Until I noticed there were all waves on the sides and dips in the top of the hedge.
Like a bad haircut I thought, "well it'll grow back". :)
But apparently I'm an old fuddy-duddy who doesn't understabnd life as it is now.
Join the club. I'm a charter member.
Girl asks her besty, "So you just had a baby?"
"Yup."
Is it a boy or girl?
"Duh! How can I know? It's not old enough to tell me yet!"
*facepalm*
Sex, as a noun: male or female, period, no other options.
Gender: masculine, feminine, or neuter -- refers to outward behaviours, not actuality.
I've thought about being cheeky & answering "F" on "gender?" questions, until I realized it would just be taken seriously without question.
Or like the teenage boy who was looking at the question "Sex?" &
thought "Well, I'd like to F, but I guess I should be honest & put that
I only M"
My baby sister is up north working her ass off as a business owner (accounting & bookkeeping office) & enjoying her many grandkids. . .
(she was first to make my mom into a great grandma--not overly appreciarted at the time)
So you're a big o' 71 now, eh? Quite young, still. . .
Most of my real-life friends are closer to 80 or 90. . .
But we understand plenty, because we know the truth & we watched it go wrong. . . powerless against a juggernaut of ignorance sweeping our respective national populations. . .
Oh, if only we could have a bunch of Lincolns hit the ballots these
days. . .
I blame the governmemt: they began using "gender" to ask if male or female because certain staff were afraid of the word "sex."
Or like the teenage boy who was looking at the question "Sex?" & thought "Well, I'd like to F, but I guess I should be honest & put that I only M"
So you're a big o' 71 now, eh? Quite young, still. . .
Most of my real-life friends are closer to 80 or 90. . .
Back when you could say "one of each" & not cause confusion.
So you're a multiplicate uncle, eh? Any family yourself? (wife, kids, grand'uns, etc?)
Did your parents consider you a "mistake" or a "surprise"?
Nearly 50 & doing manual labour/yardwork, eh? Fun times we live in, eh? :P
But we understand plenty, because we know the truth & we watched it go wrong. . . powerless against a juggernaut of ignorance sweeping our respective national populations. . .
(Once married my wife fired the cleaning folk, saying she's trust her own job better anyway)
I'm actuallky not a danger or problemn at all; I'm just more aware than most. .
Our early history is filled with sots, who essentially said "*hic* f--- it, let's do it!"
I'm especially impressed by how Mr. G. Washington was offered to be made king(absolute ruler) of his new country, & he lit into the people, reminding them of why & his compatriots fought long & hard against the British.
Duct tape can't fix stupid, but it helps mask the noise. :P
Sex is before seven....tennis before eleven -- (makes a nice tagline) <G>.
Before my wife died, and we went to get our flu shots, we had to fill out paperwork at the local Walgreens. When it got to the question about being pregnant, I said to my wife "I wonder if I should mark that??". She growled "Don't even think about it". <G>
If you can get the worm and fish on and off the hook in record time, that makes you a master baiter. <G>
Still am. I would much rather listen to music from the 20s and 30s than anything "modern" as an example. That goes for films, books,
radio, etc.
I came close to getting married a couple of times but came to my
senses. :)
I don't like be dependent on others. Never have.
One must remember these are the days of bread and circuses. Being
well fed and entertained to take you mind off things. Pay no attention
to that man (or group) behind the curtain.
And now there are so many groups giving money to the pols to do the
will of the giver and not the people.
I blame the governmemt: they began using "gender" to ask if male or female because certain staff were afraid of the word "sex."
I can understand that.
When I was a kid I was sometimes referred to as "Little Joe" (long before Bonanza was on TV) when discussing my brother or I for whatever reason.
Most of my real-life friends are closer to 80 or 90. . .
I've always enjoyed talking to older people, regardless of my age. (At one time a "older" person could have been 20, 30, 40, etc years old. As I get older there are fewer older people to talk to).
I sometimes think I was born out of time. I have always been more interested in the time from around 1900 than the years I was living in.
Still am. I would much rather listen to music from the 20s and 30s than anything "modern" as an example. That goes for films, books, radio, etc.
I could easily live a life as it was in say the 1930s and '40s.
Back when you could say "one of each" & not cause confusion.
Yep.
Like your earlier comment to let the kid decide what they are.
So you're a multiplicate uncle, eh? Any family yourself? (wife, kids, grand'uns, etc?)
Not that I know of. wink wink
I came close to getting married a couple of times but came to my senses. :)
Did your parents consider you a "mistake" or a "surprise"?
Maybe a bit of both. :)
Nearly 50 & doing manual labour/yardwork, eh? Fun times we live in, eh? :P
My work life in the past was mostly what would be termed manual labour
and outside.
I have always been active. I walk/bike wherever I need to go.
I am also very independent. I never ask anyone to take me somewhere or pick me up. I come/go as best as I can.
I don't like be dependent on others. Never have.
But we understand plenty, because we know the truth & we watched it go wrong. . . powerless against a juggernaut of ignorance sweeping our respective national populations. . .
==sigh== Yep.
(Once married my wife fired the cleaning folk, saying she's trust her own job better anyway)
I'm the same way as she is.
I'm actuallky not a danger or problemn at all; I'm just more aware than most. .
That sir is what makes you dangerous...
One must remember these are the days of bread and circuses. Being well fed and entertained to take you mind off things. Pay no attention to that man (or group) behind the curtain.
Our early history is filled with sots, who essentially said "*hic* f--- it, let's do it!"
And now there are so many groups giving money to the pols to do the will of the giver and not the people.
But then we are drifting into modern politics...
I'm especially impressed by how Mr. G. Washington was offered to be made king(absolute ruler) of his new country, & he lit into the people, reminding them of why & his compatriots fought long & hard against the British.
At the time the idea of an elected president was a radical and unproven idea.
From the earliest days there were hierarchical kings, who held all the power and gave out some to various members of the nobility.
"Elect our leaders? That's a crazy idea".
Joe
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Tagline fodder:
Silence is golden; duct tape is silver
Sex is before seven....tennis before eleven -- (makes a nice tagline) <G>.
Roger Moore gladly takes the early 8am time slot; Pierce Brosnan takes noon; Sean Connery says, "I should be free sometime after 9:30, but I
need to leave in time to be at my next appointment at 11, so ten-ish anyone?"
Aww, but why? People poike my belly and ask if I'm pregnant; I say,
"Yeah, with a baby elephant, weant to see the trunk?"
One wag had his doctor pike his belly and snidely ask, "Beer?"
"I don't know," said our no-guff-taking her, "There's a tap underneath, why don't you try a glassful?'
If you can get the worm and fish on and off the hook in record time, that makes you a master baiter. <G>
If you join a particular high school club & get top marks in
tournamemts, you might be a master debater. . .
You're a fan of Abie, too?
Q: Why couldn't Abraham Lincoln be arrested?
A: He's in a cent
I just found out that “Lincoln” made about $300 million in movie
theatres. Which is weird. Lincoln hitorically hasn’t done too well in theatres.
Q: What did the Lincoln Memorial say when it got pepper in its nose?
A: STACHOO!
I don't like be dependent on others. Never have.
Same here...but sometimes, you have to get assistance.
Also my peers were dumb as dirt, & I could actually learn from my elders! (if over 40, 50+)
From age 15 or so, my best friends were seniors. . .
I'm amazed at the self sufficiency of the generation that saw any part of the Depression!
GP> in theatres.I just found out that ˙Lincoln˙ made about $300 million in movie theatres. Which is weird. Lincoln hitorically hasn˙t done too well
That idea was shot all to pieces.
I just found out that ˙Lincoln˙ made about $300 million in movie theatres. Which is weird. Lincoln hitorically hasn˙t done too well
GP> in theatres.
That idea was shot all to pieces.
Or as the reporter asked Mary Todd, "Other than that how did you
enjoy the play Mrs Lincoln?"
Its like the old saying that for many people "history starts on the day they were born".
Anything much before then they aren't interested in.
I've always been interested in history. Not just reading about it but talking to people who were around at the time, as much as possible.
When my mother was in a home the last years of her life (she loved it there) I enjoyed talking to the other residents what it was like in "the olden days".
One had been a housekeeper for a rich, well known local family in from around 1910 to 1930 and what life was like there. What she did, how she did it, etc.
From age 15 or so, my best friends were seniors. . .
Most of the people I knew were much older than I was.
I learned a lot from their stories. Not history of kings and kingdoms
but of everyday life of the common person.
I'm amazed at the self sufficiency of the generation that saw any part of the Depression!
The average person in their teens or 20s couldn't handle that era.
Neither side of my family had any money and the Depression was more of a speed bump on the road of life rather than a crater. :)
Bette Midler had a great song, written by John Prine, Hello in There about old people.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oq51a-wyPnw&ab_channel=Musicete
Joe
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